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Don’t let cultural misunderstandings get in the way of your marriage. This book helps you navigate the delicate balance of in-law relationships with faith and compassion. Learn how to fulfil your Islamic duties while protecting your peace, using practical tools for every member of the family.

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  • Why is the relationship with in-laws often the most stressful part of a marriage? Frequently, it is because cultural expectations clash with Islamic rights. If you feel caught between your spouse and your parents or theirs, or if you are a parent-in-law struggling to navigate this new chapter in your adult child’s life, this book is your guide to a more harmonious extended family life.

    Afshan Khan tackles this silent but prevalent issue with incredible sensitivity. She introduces a framework for understanding space, privacy, and finances – the three areas where most rifts begin – thus establishing the healthy boundaries that Allah has already given us, so every family member feels respected.

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The Muslim World Book Review

“Khan sensitively navigates the complex role of culture which dictates how things are done in some households. She argues for religion to become the overriding framework to reduce the clash of cultures which often give rise to a turbulent married life. I highly recommend this book for prospective couples, Imams, and marriage counsellors.”

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Front cover with Inner spread of Secrets to Successful Marriage by Afshan Khan. Islamic marriage guide by Ta-Ha Publishers
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Front cover with Inner spread of Secrets to Successful Families by Afshan Khan. Islamic family guide by Ta-Ha Publishers
£6.50
Front cover with Inner spread of Secrets to Self Esteem by Afshan Khan. Islamic self help book by Ta-Ha Publishers
£6.50
Front cover with Inner spread of Secrets to Successful Habits Journal by Afshan Khan. Islamic worship journal by Ta-Ha Publishers
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Frequently Asked Questions

Will this book make me feel guilty about a family member?

No. It is written to free you from the guilt you feel about taking sides or keeping quiet. This book shows you how beautifully kindness to parents and birth family can co-exist harmoniously with your spouse, when understood correctly and within an Islamic framework.

My situation is very cultural and many of my family members aren’t very religious. How will this book help me?

The book specifically addresses how culture often masks Islamic wisdom. By knowing the rights and responsibilities Allah has ordained, by understanding how to handle differences with Islamic etiquette, you can find peace within yourself regardless of what others are doing.

Is this book only for daughters-in-law?

Definitely not. There are dedicated sections for parents-in-law and sons-in-law. It is designed for everyone within a marital family unit.

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